I still have not gained a lot of energy after being sick. I am constantly tired and just wipe out after the smallest thing that I do. I have put one coat on our master bath and have let it sit all week. Tomorrow I have to put the final coat on because Darryl has to put the toilet back. Last weekend he opened the garage door and saw a big brown stain in the ceiling. Our bath is over the garage. He tore into the ceiling and fixed the problem leak at our toilet, so he had to pull up the toilet. Tomorrow he has to repair all the ceiling sheetrock and insulation and put the toilet back - so I have to finish painting before he gets in there. I can't wait to show before and after photos! We could just leave the hole to the toilet and have a moonroof in the garage!
Darryl has taken three of the kids to play paintball. He takes them on a birthday date. The kid gets to pick out an activity and where they want to eat. Well, we had a December 22nd, January 16th and then Caitlyn never got her date in June so they just did a combined date tonight. I think Caitlyn was nervous about the paintballs hurting. Kyle is at home, he is too young and also went on his date so he is not a happy camper. The above photo is before they left.
I want feedback. I was having a conversation with my husband today about Facebook. I had this conversation somewhat when I started my blog. I feel that blogs and Facebook are fun but I do not like to add male friends. I feel that it is a dangerous thing that Christians are getting into where you are opening up your life to the opposite sex. You get to know one another personally and it is similar to peeking at someones diary and photos without having to make yourself known. I think many people are opening up relationship lines that would not be opened in real life. It is not that I am fearful for any personal reason, I just think many people are letting their guard down and are not keeping the proper guard over their eyes and heart. I think that is sets up an availability for a situation where someone who is struggling could "play" with their thought life or further. I have a couple of men that I am friended with but have only been to one of the sites- and it was to try to see photos of their family- they are old friends and she doesn't have an account- I would not enter into conversations with him other than to ask how his wife is. In retrospect I wish I would not have even accepted the friend requests. Not that I think anything of them, I just think that the line is before me to set and that is to make the decision now rather than later. I guess you can see I am a black and white person. I make decisions and stand by them, without all the guilt that a lot of people feel. So, what do you think? Am I coo-coo? (Not that it will change my opinion- just fun to see what others think) And, I am not judging anyone else with a different opinion, I just personally feel that I see where it could open up problems and have decided that I will not allow it in my life.
Edit: A thought came to me last night after writing- when I was wondering if I sounded like a fool- Facebook and blog comments are like today's version of a phone call or a note sent- so would it be alright to send that person a note or call them? If the answer is "no" then you are playing with an area where you are letting your guard down. Why is it okay to have a relationship in Facebook that would not be okay through a phone line.