Last night my 12 year old and 8 year old came running in the house and into the kitchen. All we heard was two slaps. The 8 year old hit her so she whacked the mess out of him back. My husband and I tried to get all the reasons and punished them. At the end we told them to hug and say they were sorry. My kids went up and hugged each other and said, "I am sorry I love you." We were giggling that it came out that way.