Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Don't judge a book by it's cover or a really dumb Dollar Stretcher article


Last week on The Dollar Stretcher I read an article that just made me mad. I am not usually one to get so riled up but this article made such bias observations that were not using truth that I tried to address it with the editor Gary Foreman but was not happy with his response.



If you took the time to read the article you will see that the author said that if you want to see if a person is an Under Achiever of Wealth (from the book The Millionaire Next Door) then look in their driveway. If they have a SUV then they are a UAW. His reasons were that they cost more upfront, cost more to maintain because parts are more, cost more to insure, and cost more in gas. They also make the assumption that if a person would buy a SUV then the rest of their life is a life of consumption. Then, the funny part is they tell how wonderful people who buy Toyota Corolla/Camrys are because they probably bought them three years old from someone in the paper.




My problem was the strong bias this author took. He made rash judgements that if you have a SUV you paid full retail price and if you buy a Toyota you bought used. How? Where did he get this information.? When you compare items you compare like items. Compare new SUV to new Toyota or used against used. You can't just assume one is only bought new.




We own both an SUV- a Yukon XL and a Toyota Camry. Well, we actually have another vehicle, a full size GMC pick up. So, in all we have two large vehicles and a small car. We have no car payment. When we bought the Yukon it was 2 years old. We looked at vans and the closest we liked was the Odyssey. To buy within the same year of vehicle there was a $2000 difference. The benefit to us was that we have five kids and the Yukon was much more spacious for us. The Odyssey would not even fit a shopping trip of groceries in the trunk. It also would not fit all of our luggage when we traveled. During baseball season we have baseball bags in the trunk on top of these items. The Yukon has a large trunk space which I use all the time. We also have had a 31' camper and a ski boat that we pull with the Yukon and would have not been able to pull with the Odyssey. Is it wrong for us to choose a vehicle that works with the needs of our family? So, his theory that the initial cost is so much more is not true. We bought the GMC truck from our father-in-law. It was garage kept, he took it to the dealer for regular oil changes and maintenance, and rarely used it. It is a 2000 model and now has 46,000 miles on it. Yes, that is right, it is 11 years old and only has 46K miles! The Camry was my mother-in-law's car and we bought it for our teens to drive. It is a 1998 model.




His second assumption was it costs more to maintain. The oil is more for the larger vehicles, but we have not had maintenance much for any of our vehicles so we have not had the expense of maintenance. The gas is more. But, lets compare the true cost. We average 876 miles a month for the Yukon. At 14 miles per gallon that is 62.5 gallons a month X $2.40 a gallon= $150 a month in gas. The Camry gets about 28 mpg= 31 gallons of gas X $2.40 a gallon = $74.40 a month of gas. So, it is half the cost in gas, but most of those Yukon miles are put on when we vacation or our whole family is riding in the car so we would not have all fit in the Camry. I could compare it to a van that gets better mileage but the difference would be about midway between the Camry and Yukon so only about $35 at most a month in savings- not worth the gripe about how awful a SUV is for gas mileage. For $35 a month it is worth it for me to have something more comfortable and more useful for my family.




Now, the cost of insurance. I just got our insurance statement. We pay $42.86 a month for full coverage on our 2001 Yukon, $34.79 a month for our 2000 pick up, and $50.40 a month for liability only on the 1998 Camry. We pay MORE for liability only on the Camry than for full coverage on the Yukon! The Camry is higher because we have teens on it, but it is still funny to me that his theory was busted. To insure only my husband and me only it probably would be a little cheaper to insure a Camry, but not that drastic a difference to write an article stating that you pay so much more for a SUV. It is probably a $10-$15 a month difference if that much, and look at the age difference above: a 1998 vs. a 2001. I don't think comparing like model years would be that much difference. Right now Toyota is having some severe issues so a newer one is probably not on the top rate list.


My anger is that the author took such severe bias. His whole article is based on opinion instead of facts, and he clearly is of the opinion that no one should drive an SUV. Most of his points have been proven incorrect or misleading by my situation. I have two large vehicles, and I am also a very frugal person living below my means. He is making a judgement about me because of what is in my driveway, without looking at any more information. That is bias. If it was because I was black it would not be tolerated. If it was because I am a woman it would be clear that it was wrong.


I wrote my complaint to Gary Foreman, the creator of The Dollar Stretcher, and this was his reply:


"Thank you for your note. Clearly you can be frugal and still drive an SUV. But, I think that you'd have to agree that many people drive SUVs that do NOT need the extra space/carrying capacity. Sorry that you were offended. We just wanted to get people thinking.

Gary"


I responded:


"This article does not in any way state that you can be frugal and drive an SUV. It clearly states that if you have one everyone can assume you live above your means. Because it is written with such bias and clearly takes assumptions and tries to make them truths, I feel it is a bad representation for your website... I know may people with large families that lead a lifestyle very similar to mine and although there are people with an SUV that do not need the cargo space it is not anyone else's business what they drive. It is a big assumption to say they live beyond their means. This person is just clearly not able to take facts and opinions and write an article worth reading. I would just think an article could get people thinking without being so full of bull and bias and you would not want to associate with people so unable to clearly offer things to truly think upon."


Gary's reply:


"We've added an editor's note to the article. Clearly we've hit your hot button. I am sorry if it offended you."


The note? It said the same thing he replied about not everyone needed the cargo space. THAT WAS NOT THE ISSUE and that is not anyone's business if I need it anyway. I, as an American, can drive what I want. But, the best part- the editor's note is no longer there. He has removed it!

Are coupons REALLY worth it?


Do you ever wonder just how much value is in cutting, organizing, and remembering to shop with coupons are each week? Even though I see how many free or nearly free items I am able to get each week using coupons, I still have had moments where I have wondered if it was really worth it. I have wondered if I just shopped at WalMart if it would be nearly the same without the hassle.
I had an opportunity to see just how much value they bring to my life with my recent illness. I went at least a month where I did not use a single coupon. I didn't even shop. I made lists and sent my husband or my two teens to the store to keep us going. They picked up a lot of easy to prepare items, $4 boxes of cereal, pizzas, burgers, chicken nuggets. I had a lot of tests during this time and couldn't eat, so I would stop for something after my appointment. My husband bought lunch out because I wasn't making him anything. In 40 days time we spent $1400 on food. My normal budget is $600 a month. We blew it! We wasted a lot of money and let laziness and sickness take our money. Thank God we are not so tight on a budget that it made us go in debt or caused us to go hungry later.
I am going to focus on making up more items for the freezer. Cooked chicken for casseroles, grilled chicken, grilled pork chops, a cooked roast, cooked hamburger meat. Also stock up more soups and some more things in cans like spaghettios, beef stew, etc. I can't get enough cereal. We were going through over a box a day. I have a lot of frozen and canned vegetables. I ate a lot of crackers since I wasn't feeling well.
I truly believe that the coupons are a big money saver. They allow me to keep my pantry stocked and if I cook from that I can feed my family economically and healthier meals. It is good to have some of the prepackaged items for illnesses or emergency situations, but I wouldn't want to eat that way most of the time. I also don't want to eat out as much as we have. My family has been a blessing to help out so much and I really appreciate them, but I also got a little validation to what I bring to the family with my coupon shopping and using what we have for meals.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Where am I?

I am started to get comments and emails asking where I am. Sorry, I never intended to be gone so long. I have been sick for awhile. Since August I have had almost daily stomach pain and digestive problems. I have had numerous x-rays, bloodwork, and tests to find nothing other than the pancreatic cyst that is benign and should not be a problem. Around Thanksgiving I started coughing with no other symptoms of a cold. After seven weeks I finally went to the doctor and an xray showed all the Lymph nodes in my chest are enlarged and the pleura of my lung has thickened. The diagnosis is Sarcoidosis, which can go away on it's own or something you have for a lifetime. It has all just left me not feeling well and unable to do more than basic daily things- those being questionable as I am not really cleaning or cooking too much. I have not blogged since I have not been sewing or crafting or remodeling or shopping or really anything. It would have been some very boring blog posts :) I am beginning to mend and think I may make it to the store for the weekly deals so I hope to be back into life soon. I really would like to get into the gym and try to increase my strength and feel better. Thank you for the emails I have received.